Category: Betrayal
Forgive, Don’t Forget
It is said: سامح اعدائك ولكن لا تنسى اسمائهم ابدا ”Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names.” Anyone who can backstab you once, is capable of doing it again. Don’t give second chances. If they get anoth...
View DetailsTalking Bad
“Don’t tell me that they talked bad about me… tell me why they felt comfortable talking bad about me in your presence?" لا تخبرني بأنهم تحدثوا عني بسوء، أخبرني لماذا ارتاحوا بالحديث عني أمامك؟...
View DetailsUnreliable Friends
They say about finding people's true nature: بعض البشر كمسائل الرياضيات .. الحل طويل و القيمة صفر !.. 'Some people are like complicated maths questions: it takes long to understand and figure them out, but the answer you end up with may be zero (i...
View DetailsDealing With Past Trauma
We need to be very careful in our dealings with people who have been scarred, due to bad past experiences. There is a proverb: من لدغته الحية يخاف من الحبل 'A person who was bitten by a snake fears a rope.' We should be very gentle...
View DetailsUngrateful Humans
A servant served his king for 10 years. The servant once made a mistake, and the king ordered that he should be executed, saying: "throw him to the dogs!!" But the dogs refused to eat him, because he had fed them for a few days. The servant said t...
View DetailsTalking Behind People
A wise man once said: يتحدثون من خلفك لأنهم بالفعل خلفك "They talk behind you, because they ARE behind you."...
View DetailsUngrateful People
People are generally ungrateful. If you do something for someone, do it for the sake of God. Don't do it for the sake of people. People will disappoint you. It is said: که سپی ته مو درې ورځې ډوډۍ ورکړه؛ نو درۍ کاله مو احسان نه هیروي که یو انسان ته ...
View DetailsHypocrites
The Prophet said: أَكْثَرُ مُنَافِقِي أُمَّتِي قُرَّاؤُهَا "Most of the hypocrites in my nation will be among its Qur'an reciters." ["Sahih al-Jaami", 1203]....
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